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Spouse Requirements List

Do you prefer silence, or are you afraid of silence? What noise level are you happiest in? Are you more comfortable being alone, or around others? Who do you relate to more? Mother or father? How quickly do you respond to text messages? Do you always answer your phone? or leave it ringing or ignore it sometimes? What kind of house would you be happy in? Do you prefer hot, cold, or room temperature? What temperature are you happiest in? What smells affect you the most? describe things that you can smell that other people tend to ignore When do you wash dishes? Describe your methods When do you take out trash? Describe your methods When do you wash clothes? Describe your methods When do you clean your room? Describe your methods When do you clean your house? Describe your methods When do you clean your bathroom? Describe your methods  When do you clean your car? Describe your methods If you had $5, what would you do with it? If you had $20, what would you do with it? If you had $100, wha

Wife Hunting

Define your requirements for happy marriage and family Respect Loyalty Easy to get along with  Do not care about what they want until they have shown they can meet your requirements Never give them anything in the HOPE that they will behave the way you want. That behaviour must exist prior to your involvement. TEST their ability to fulfil your requirements RESPECT The most important person in this relationship is YOU, not HER If she disagrees with your opinion she can voice her disagreement, but should NEVER act in a way to force or guilt you into changing your mind Must never question or belittle you in front of others LOYALTY If you ask her to go somewhere with you, she must go She must come home with you She is not allowed to be in the presence of other men in a social setting without you around EASY TO GET ALONG WITH If you make a mistake, she should be able to accept it without serious quarrel If you are in a bad situation, she must not make it worse If you ask her to do something

How to attract a good wife

Profession Doctor/Dentist/any health profession Lawyer Teacher Civil Servant Friends Surround yourself with people who will help improve you Habits

Female Value Tiers

Young Age High Fitness No Children Ability to share new experiences together Makes me feel like a king

How to select a wife - Selection criteria in order of priority

Top Tier - S - Wife Her Mother is a good example of the wife you want Her mother has taught her the responsibilities of being a good wife Does not respond in the following ways when challenged Shame Insult Guilt Need to be right Teachers. Farmers.  Nurses, doctors trained to care.  Economists are easy to control.  Nutritionists know the way to a man's heart.  Mathematicians sire clever kids.  Public relations/customer relations. Accountant Normal tier - A - Girlfriend Respects time Can do math (understands how to calculate value for money) Cook Clean Not too Pretty (7-) All Others - B - Hookup/Friend Pretty (7+) Raised to be single and independent Dishonest / Willing to Omit information Psychologists Lawyers Military Police Actress, Singer Journalist

Deal breaking behaviours

If she does any of these things, she is no good, throw her back. Respect  Disrespects you Disrespects your family Is late for no good reason Spends money carelessly / Is bad at math Makes decisions without understanding the facts She is selfish and cares only for her own pocket and well-being Treatment of others Treats her family badly Treats her parents badly Treats her friends better than you Treats strangers better than you This is a reflection of how she will treat you and your children Conflict Resolution Storms off or runs away using excuses like "I haven't had my coffee yet" "I need a drink" "I can't do this right now" The reality is, she will never make time to resolve anything Communication

Realizations in the Aftermath

 I spent a lot of my time on distractions to try to cope with her horrible behaviour, thinking that i was the one that needed to be a better person with more patience The more i allowed her unacceptable behaviour, the more she would do it, and the more i would have to distract and ignore to prevent a world ending fight from breaking out The correct answer was to let the fight happen. Let her know it was unacceptable. Let things break down the way they were supposed to, instead of me tolerating it, and instead having a long drawn out death The more i think about it, the more i believe she was doing it on purpose, in the hopes that i would have snapped earlier, and given her an excuse to end it. Once the women start misbehaving, it's one of two things They are looking to create a situation in which they can break up with you, but make it look like your fault They are looking for attention Neither one of these outcomes are good traits or behaviours for any normal human being, and shou