I spent a lot of my time on distractions to try to cope with her horrible behaviour, thinking that i was the one that needed to be a better person with more patience The more i allowed her unacceptable behaviour, the more she would do it, and the more i would have to distract and ignore to prevent a world ending fight from breaking out The correct answer was to let the fight happen. Let her know it was unacceptable. Let things break down the way they were supposed to, instead of me tolerating it, and instead having a long drawn out death The more i think about it, the more i believe she was doing it on purpose, in the hopes that i would have snapped earlier, and given her an excuse to end it. Once the women start misbehaving, it's one of two things They are looking to create a situation in which they can break up with you, but make it look like your fault They are looking for attention Neither one of these outcomes are good traits or behaviours for any normal human being, and shou...